For separated and divorced parents

Co-parenting, with wisdom in the middle.

One calm, shared place for two households: the parenting schedule, the calendar, expenses, documents and messages. When a conversation gets stuck, a neutral mediator helps you both find the middle ground.

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Why MiddleWise

Children do best when the adults around them can meet in the middle. MiddleWise keeps the shared facts in one neutral place, so the energy goes into the kids instead of the arguments.

How it works

  1. Create your family spaceAdd the children and the parenting schedule. You can set everything up before your co-parent joins.
  2. Invite your co-parentYou both see the same calendar, expenses and files. Step-parents, grandparents and lawyers can join with limited access.
  3. Keep it in writingRequests, approvals, payments and agreements are dated and permanent, ready for a report whenever you need one.

Everything two households need,
nothing they don't.

Built around what family courts, mediators and co-parents actually ask for.

Plan

Know whose day it is

  • Parenting-time schedules2-2-5-5, week-on/week-off, alternating weekends, or one you build yourself.
  • Swap and holiday requestsA written yes or no. Approved changes update the calendar automatically.
  • A shared family calendarSchool, medical and activities for both homes, exportable to your phone.
Share

Split the load fairly

  • Shared expensesReceipts, percentage splits, approvals, disputes and reimbursements, with a CSV export.
  • Documents and photosOrders, report cards and medical records in private, encrypted storage.
  • Child infoAllergies, medications, doctors, school, sizes and emergency contacts.
Resolve

Keep conversations civil

  • Respectful messagingPermanent and timestamped, with an optional tone check before you send.
  • Neutral mediationPrivate conversations with each parent that lead to written agreements.
  • Records and reportsExchange check-ins, agreements and a dated report for any period.
Mediation

When you're stuck, talk to someone in the middle.

Each parent talks privately with a neutral AI mediator. It listens, turns blame into needs, and passes on only what helps, asking you first before sharing anything sensitive.

Negotiating a document? Either of you can attach it. When you agree, the mediator drafts the terms for both of you to accept.

Start with the schedule. Invite your co-parent when you're ready.

Setting up takes a few minutes. Nothing is sent to anyone until you choose to invite them.

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